Fit 4 Fatherhood: 4 Years, 4 Hard Truths, 4 Pillars of Fitness

Save yourself 4 years of frustration - save your marriage, and relationship with your children.

Most men today are struggling in silence, overwhelmed by the weight of marriage, fatherhood, and life’s demands. But what if the problem isn’t effort? What if it’s the map we were given — a blueprint for manhood that has failed men, women, and families for years?

In this episode, Markus shares the four hard truths every father must face and the four pillars of fitness that provide a proven framework for becoming the man your family needs. He reveals why modern men feel lost and what it actually takes to regain clarity, confidence, and feel in control.

🔹 The Four Hard Truths every man must confront
🔹 The Four Pillars of Fitness — a time-tested system for thriving as a father
🔹 Why you can’t do this alone — and why you don't have to

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Transcript

I remember standing in the kitchen just watching. Kristen was overwhelmed juggling her job, the house, the kids, holding everything together, and I was there, but I wasn't helping. Not really, not because I didn't want to, not because I didn't care, but because I was already running at full capacity work, commute, and other responsibilities.

There just weren't enough hours in the day to move the needle on any of it, and I knew if I stayed on this path, if I just kept doing what I was doing one way or another, my kids were going to grow up without their father, and my wife was going to live without her husband because I had seen this happen before more than a dozen times.

Friends, family, colleagues. Good men, hardworking, well-intentioned men watching their marriages and families drive straight off a cliff, not because they wanted to, not because they didn't see the problem, but because they didn't know when or how to put their foot on the brake or when to turn down a better road.

They weren't blind, they weren't ignorant, they were stuck [00:01:00] and inertia carried them forward even when they knew it was leading them somewhere, they didn't want to go. But here's where my story took a different turn. I had an opportunity that most men never get. Most men will never have the chance to step back, take a sabbatical, or dedicate years to figuring this out, but I did.

Four years as a full-time stay at home Dad, four years. Diving deep into what makes marriage thrive, what makes a father effective, and why so many men today are failing at both. I didn't figure this out because I had it all together. I figured this out because I was struggling, I was making mistakes. I was getting it wrong over and over again, and I had to learn the hard way.

I had the time to research, to test, to fail, and to recalibrate. I had the time to see the patterns to rediscover the principles that have escaped so many men in recent decades. And here's what I realized.

Most men don't have the luxury of taking four years to figure this out, but [00:02:00] they, their wives and their children are still suffering the consequences. So I decided if I was fortunate enough to have this opportunity, then I have a responsibility to share what I learned to package everything I discovered and make it available to the men who need it.

That's why we're here, because if you're feeling even a fraction of what I felt that day in the kitchen, you don't have time to waste. And here's the truth, if you don't see the problem clearly, you'll never find the right solution. That's why we need to start by looking in the mirror. I. There are four hard truths that every father needs to face, whether he wants to or not.

And for the women listening, you already see this. You've seen your husband, your brother, or a friend struggling under the weight of responsibility, feeling stuck, exhausted, and disconnected your part of this journey too, because when a man is operating at his full capacity, his wife, his kids, and everyone around him benefits.

So let's get into it.

A lot of [00:03:00] men think emotional fitness means ignoring emotions. We tell ourselves emotions are irrational, unreliable distractions. So we push them aside. We detach from them. We override them with logic. And when we see emotions in other people, our wife's stress, our kids' frustrations, we dismiss them too.

They're overreacting. That's not my problem. But here's the truth. Emotions aren't distractions. They're information. If your wife is overwhelmed, if your kids are struggling, if you feel angry, frustrated, and disconnected, that's not noise. That's a signal. The question is, do you know how to read that signal? Because here's where most men, good men get stuck, some ignore emotions, completely convincing themselves that if they just stay calm and rational, everything will sort itself out.

Others get stripped away by emotion overreacting and losing control, and 

neither man leads his family well. The man who does, the man who [00:04:00] thrives is the one who understands emotion because emotions shape most of human experience. Your wife and kids are not purely logical creatures and neither are you. Needs, fears and desires are not neatly laid out in a spreadsheet, but that doesn't mean we can dismiss them.

If you don't know how to interpret and respond to emotion, you will always be falling behind in your marriage and your relationships with your children. That doesn't mean you become emotional, it means you become emotionally fluent, able to read between the lines so you have a complete understanding of what is in play at any given time.

I had to learn this the hard way, but the good news is that you can learn it. It's a skill, not an immutable trait.

After I started working on the emotional side of my marriage and family, I thought the next step was better systems, better habits, better routines. I thought if we can just optimize how the household runs, [00:05:00] get more efficient, manage our time better, then we won't be so stressed. So we tried. We built systems, we streamlined routines, we tweaked the way we did things, but the stress didn't go away.

And then the deeper issue came into focus because what I hadn't seen, what many men don't see is that it isn't about time management. It's about alignment. My wife and I weren't struggling because we weren't efficient enough. We were struggling because we didn't even have the same understanding of what mattered or why we didn't have a shared, aligned vision for our life or for our family.

And without that, optimizing systems and routines is just a waste of time. This is the mistake many men make. They hit turbulence in their marriage and they try to fix it tactically, tweaking habits, adjusting schedules, making small changes, but they never ask the deeper question, what are we actually optimizing for?

Here's the reality. Every successful company, military [00:06:00] unit, or organization of any kind has a mission, a strategy, and a structure that aligns everyone on the same goals. But modern families most have none of that.

Most men are operating in their marriage the same way a business would operate with no strategic plan, no leadership alignment, and no shared objectives. How do you think that works out? It doesn't. That's why so many men feel like they're doing everything they can, but it's still not enough. Effort without direction is wasted motion.

And the reason this is happening is simple. No one teaches men to think of their family this way.

In the professional world, strategy is everything. In the military, a mission dictates every move. But at home, we're just supposed to figure it out as we go. We're told that being a good man just means working hard, showing up and providing. But what we're not told is that if you don't set a shared vision, no amount of hard work will keep your family on the right track.

Because being adaptive [00:07:00] doesn't mean just going with the flow. It means knowing what matters, seeing what's broken and adjusting accordingly. It means pivoting toward a mission, not just pivoting away from pain. This is the second hard truth I had to learn. And once I did the next realization, hit me like a freight train.

Because even if you get this part right, even if you and your wife finally get on the same page, finally set a mission, you still have to execute it. And that's where many men fail.

Most men assume they know how life is supposed to work.

They believe in a path, the one that they were raised to follow. Work hard, provide be a good man, and things will fall into place.

And when things don't fall into place, when marriage is harder than expected, when fatherhood is overwhelming, when stress and burnout feel permanent, they assume the problem is themselves. I must not be trying hard enough. I just need to be more disciplined, more efficient, more productive. But what if the problem isn't effort or even [00:08:00] output?

What if the problem is the map itself? Most men are following a map that was handed to them, a map designed for a world that doesn't exist anymore and maybe never did a map that not only became outdated, but seems to have been flawed from the very beginning. we know that now because we have the results.

We don't have to speculate. We don't have to argue theory. We have 75 years of evidence. The cultural, economic and social shifts that began in 1950. The ones that reshaped the way men, women, marriage and family are structured. Were all an experiment and now that 75 year experiment is over, we know the results and they're not good.

The way we were told to structure our lives, the priorities, the expectations, the trade-offs. We can see now where those lead men aren't thriving. They're more anxious, more passive, weaker than ever before. Women aren't thriving. They're more stressed, less fulfilled, more dissatisfied in their marriages and in their [00:09:00] lives, and most of all, children aren't thriving.

There are higher rates of fatherlessness and instability. And higher rates of anxiety and depression. We were told that these changes would make life better.

We were promised that this path, this way of structuring life would lead to happiness and equality and stronger families. Instead, we got the opposite. So here's a hard truth. If we know the system is failing, then we can admit that following the system is a losing strategy. Because if we keep walking this path, we already know where it leads.

The question is, are you willing to take a different path? Most men don't stop to question their assumptions. They assume their struggle is their own failure, not the fact that they're using a broken mental model. So they try harder instead of stepping back to reevaluate like a lost traveler following a bad map. 

 Maps are not reality, and when you realize the map is wrong, the answer isn't to keep following it [00:10:00] or to make up your own map. The answer is to rediscover the 10,000 year baseline that existed before this experiment began. Men for thousands of years had a clear understanding of what was required for human flourishing for themselves, for their marriages, for their children, and for their communities.

They knew that men needed purpose, discipline, and brotherhood. They knew that women thrive when the men in their lives lead with strength, wisdom and with love. They knew that children needed the stability of strong fathers as well as the devotion of their mothers. These are not theories. These are not political opinions.

These are the lived proven realities from 10,000 years of human civilization. And then what? We threw them all out.

We replaced them with wishful thinking, corporate driven priorities and ideological fantasies. And now with 75 years of hindsight, we see exactly what that got us. So we have a choice. We can double down on the failures of this [00:11:00] experiment, continue embracing relativism, individualism, and get more of the same, or we can turn back to what works because it's consistent with human flourishing.

This was the third hard truth I had to learn, and it changed everything. Because once I saw this, once I realized that clarity, purpose, and human flourishing are not something that we invent, but something we align our lives with. Then I stopped feeling lost. I stopped chasing things that weren't working.

I stopped living by assumptions that didn't serve me or my family.

One of the first things you realize when you stop trusting failed postmodernist maps is that the human person is not just a mind inside a body. We are not disembodied intellects walking around in flesh suits. As human beings, we are mind body composites, and your physical condition is not separate from your mental, emotional, or adaptive strength.

Your physical fitness is the foundation for everything, [00:12:00] because here's another truth. If your body is weak, your presence in every dimension of life is weak. If you're sluggish and exhausted, your kids don't get the best of you. Your wife doesn't get the man she fell in love with, and you wake up every morning feeling like you're already behind.

Think about it. Your ability to think clearly, to stay present and to regulate your emotions is directly tied to your physical health and fitness.

Your ability to be disciplined, to set and achieve goals, and to overcome setbacks. All of this is most readily cultivated through fitness and your ability to be patient, resilient, and flexible in your thinking. All of them improve when your body is healthy and strong, and that means if you are neglecting your physical health, you are not just failing your body.

You are limiting your mind and weakening your ability in every other area. It's all connected, and if we get this part wrong, everything else suffers. Most men don't think about this until it's too late, [00:13:00] until their body starts breaking down, until their energy levels crash, until their children are old enough to notice that Dad can't keep up until they realize their wife no longer sees them as either strong or attractive, and by then the damage is done.

Because weakness doesn't happen all at once. You stop prioritizing fitness and start putting on the pounds, you get slower, more tired, and you get more irritable. You start choosing comfort over discipline, and before you know it, you're far from the man you thought you would be. You don't have the energy to wrestle with your kids or throw them on your shoulders. You don't have the strength to keep up with the demands of life without getting exhausted. You don't have the confidence, the presence or the capability that you once had. And the worst part of it is that you did it to yourself self,

because this is one area of life over which you have complete control and you let it slip. And maybe you could live with that. Maybe you could accept that you're the one paying the price for your own neglect. But here's a [00:14:00] gut punch. You aren't the only one paying the price. Your children are paying it and they will keep paying it too.

Childhood obesity is skyrocketing. Kids are developing diabetes, heart disease, and chronic health problems before they even reach adulthood. And we don't have to guess why children do not create their own habits. Parents do. Fathers don't just lead by example. Fathers define what normal looks like. If you live an active, disciplined life, your children will see that as normal. But if you are out of shape, sedentary, undisciplined, cranky, sluggish, they'll see that as normal too, and they will carry that mental model and those habits with them.

For the rest of their life. If you don't take care of your body, you are training your kids to neglect their own. 

If you can't be bothered to work out, then they learn that exercise isn't a priority. If you eat like garbage, they learn that what they put in their own bodies doesn't matter. If you are weak, they will be weak. If you are undisciplined, they will be undisciplined. And let's [00:15:00] be clear, this is not just about losing weight or vanity.

This is about capability.

Your physical condition determines your ability to be present, engaged, and active in your family's life. It determines how much energy you have for your kids. It determines whether you are strong and capable or weak and dependent. And if you let yourself decline, the burden doesn't just fall on you. It falls on your wife, your kids, and everyone who depends on you. 

You may think that sacrificing your fitness is noble because you're focusing on them, but in reality, they are suffering for it because your family needs your presence, your energy, your strength. And the woman you married, she deserves a husband who is strong, capable, and healthy enough to grow old with her, not a man who slowly lets himself fall apart and expects her to carry the burden. The most insidious thing about these four hard truths about our emotional, adaptive, mental, and physical setbacks, [00:16:00] weaknesses, and blind spots

is that we suffer from trying to figure this out alone, and we don't even realize that's part of the problem. But for 10,000 years, men didn't do any of this alone. Fathers, husbands, they had brotherhood, mentorship, and generational wisdom guiding them.

But over the past 75 years, we've convinced ourselves that struggling in isolation is normal. That a real man figures it out on his own, even when it's costing him his marriage, his family, and his future. For four years, I had the luxury to step away from the grind and dedicate myself to figuring this out full time.

And even with that insane advantage, it was frustrating. It was overwhelming, and it was discouraging because there's no clear path, no roadmap, no guide for every five things I tried. Four were a waste of time. And most men, they don't have four years. They're drowning in responsibilities, juggling work, marriage, fatherhood, and [00:17:00] everything in between.

They don't have time to sift through and trial and error, and they shouldn't have to. And when they do go looking for answers, they get empty self-help advice. They get ideological nonsense. They get strategies based on a failed 75 year social experiment, one that has proven measurably to lead to catastrophic results.

And yet that's what most men are blindly trusting as their source of truth. No wonder we feel lost.

That's when it hit me. The frustration I felt wasn't just about my own situation. It was about the fact that modern men have no structured, credible, battle tested framework to follow. There's no established path for becoming the husband and father you actually want to be. How is that even possible?

Every other serious field business, sports, the military has structured battle tested frameworks handed off from one man to another. Whether you want to be a Navy Seal, where there's a clear path to follow, you wanna be a high powered [00:18:00] CEO where there are proven principles and strategies. If you want to master any craft in any arena of life, there's a roadmap.

But for the single most important thing in your life leading your family, you're expected to just figure it out. That's insane. And this isn't just a burden men carry. It affects everyone around them. When a husband feels stuck, his wife feels it too. When a father is exhausted and distracted, his kids are left out.

This isn't just about helping men. It's about building stronger marriages, stronger families, and stronger futures for everyone. And that's why this matters to you. Whether you're a man trying to level up or someone who cares about a man who needs this in his life. So many men are failing, not because they're not trying, but because they were never given a real plan.

There has to be a better way, and so I did the work

I collected, organized and synthesized everything I learned. I filtered out the ideological nonsense and the outdated ineffective [00:19:00] advice. I built a structured framework built on universal timeless principles that any man can execute, starting immediately without wasting years like I did. And now I'm making sure other men don't have to suffer the same time energy and frustration

just to get to the same place. That's what we're about to walk through next, because if you're listening to this right now, you don't have four years to waste.

Right now, you already know where your current path leads. You can keep trying harder, but nothing's going to change. You can keep reading, listening, learning, but somehow you'll never find the right conditions to execute. You can keep hoping that it'll just click one day, but somehow a year from now you'll be exactly where you are.

But what if everything started to work? What if you finally had the right system, the right pillars holding everything together? What if, instead of feeling like you're constantly reacting to stress, you felt steady and in control? What if your marriage felt [00:20:00] strong, secure, and aligned instead of like a constant zero sum renegotiation?

What if you felt clearheaded, physically powerful and capable instead of drained and scattered? That's what happens when you have the right framework, a complete structured system that ensures you aren't just trying harder, but actually moving toward a better way of living. And it all comes down to four essential pillars.

And when these four pillars are in place, everything else starts to fall in place too. First, every man knows he should be in shape. But few realize that physical fitness isn't just about looking good. It's about being fully present in your own life. What happens when you get this right? You wake up with energy, not exhausted.

You move through the day with power and presence.

Your kids notice, your wife notices you notice. Imagine waking up clear, strong, and full of energy, ready to attack the day. Imagine walking through the door after work and instead of collapsing onto the couch, [00:21:00] scooping up your son and him seeing a man that he looks forward to becoming one day. Imagine your wife looking at you with admiration again because she sees a man who is fully alive, fully present, and fully in control of himself.

Your body isn't just a shell. It's the engine that drives your ability to lead. And when you get this part right, everything that follows becomes easier.

The second pillar is mental fitness. Not just knowing things,

but seeing reality clearly, and having the right mental models to make the right moves. When you get this right, you see problems before they happen. You move with confidence and direction. You stop second guessing yourself and start executing. Clarity is a force multiplier. The better you see, the better you lead.

And when your mind is sharp, your family feels it. Your wife trusts your leadership and your kids respect your decisions because they can feel the difference between a man who is lost and a man who knows exactly where he is going.

[00:22:00] And when physical and mental fitness are in place.

Then they prop up the third pillar of adaptive fitness, where you are fully capable and competent to cultivate a shared vision that you can lead your family toward instead of just. Hoping for chaos to dissipate. When you get this right, you and your wife are on the same page, pulling in the same direction.

You stop having the same fights over and over because you finally have clarity on what actually matters to both of you and for your family. Your home runs more smoothly with purpose instead of feeling like a constant battlefield. When you finally start treating your family with the same level of strategic thinking and discipline that you apply to your career or even your hobbies, then everything changes. 

And the fourth pillar is emotional fitness. A man who ignores emotions is like a leader giving orders in a foreign language. He might think he's making sense, but no one around him understands. His wife feels unheard, his kids feel [00:23:00] disconnected, and instead of leading with clarity and influence, he ends up frustrated, isolated and ineffective.

When you get this right, your wife feels emotionally safe and trusts you more. Your kids look up to you, not just because you're their father, but because they feel genuinely connected to you. You move through life with calm control and with clarity. This is what separates great men from average men because you don't just want to be a husband or a father.

You want to be a leader of your family. And leadership requires emotional mastery.

Most men today live their lives feeling like something is missing, and it's because they're strong in one or two areas, but completely neglecting the others. If you focus on physical fitness, but ignore your mindset, you'll be strong, but mentally fragile. If you work on your career, but ignore your marriage, you'll be successful, but alone.

If you read books but don't implement structure, you'll be [00:24:00] informed, but ineffective. But when all four pillars are in place, your body is strong, your mind is clear, your family is aligned,  

and your leadership carries weight. This is when life starts to feel effortless instead of like a constant struggle. This is when you become the father and husband you were meant to be,

 But here's the hook. Knowing these truths isn't enough.

Because even if you understand what's broken, even if you can see where you want to go, you still can't get there alone, and that's the next hard reality men have to face.

When I first started piecing this framework together, distilling everything I'd learned from four years of full-time focus, I thought the best way to share it would be through a podcast or some downloadable PDF. I thought if I can just get this all out there, it'll help men find clarity. It'll help them avoid wasted years of trial and error that I went through, and they'll be able to make real progress.

And in some ways that is true. The [00:25:00] information itself matters. Clarity matters, but then it hit me. The information alone does not create transformation because if it did, every man who read a self help book or listened to a podcast would've already turned his life around. But we all know that's not how it works.

Look at any elite group of men in any serious arena of life, whether it's the military, athletics, business, or any area of leadership, none of them operate in isolation. They train together, they hold each other accountable. They sharpen one another

Because the fact men do not reach their potential alone. For 10,000 years, men didn't do this alone. They had a brotherhood that ensured every man was fully prepared to fulfill his role and responsibilities. That's how it always worked.

Until now, because today most men have no structured support. Most men are trying to figure it out all alone. Most men have no one [00:26:00] holding them to any standard or picking them up when they stumble, and that's why they stay stuck, not because they aren't capable, not because they aren't trying, but because without brotherhood, without structure, without accountability, it is almost impossible to reach your potential.

And that's how I realized that most men's roots today don't actually help men grow. Why? Because most groups make one of two critical mistakes. Either they have no real structure, they're just a place where guys swap opinions and there's no actual system for progress, or they let everybody in.

And when you have no standards, then you have no strength. And that's what I knew. I had to create a place where men aren't just consuming information, they're engaged. Executing and leveling up together where any man ready to take ownership of his own destiny can experience the best of what some of us have the privilege to experience in uniform rich community, and a culture of excellence where men [00:27:00] call upon and help one another to be the best version of themselves every day.

A place where men connect, not. Merely via superficial character, limited posts and comments, but rather engage in meaningful dialogue and crucially

also meet up in person and overcome real world challenges, shoulder to shoulder, a place with a well-designed and enduring structure, a proven path to becoming a husband, father, and leader that we were meant to be. A place with real standards where men don't just join, they step up and strive together towards shared goals using a shared playbook and a shared language.

Because the strength of a brotherhood comes from the men inside of it. And if you don't protect that culture, the community loses its power and nobody benefits. That's why this isn't for everyone, and it isn't just about you. It's about your family, your kids, the men who are coming after you right now, your sons are watching.

Your daughters are [00:28:00] watching. Fast forward 10 years. What do they remember about the kind of man you were? Do they remember a father who was present strong and in control, or do they remember a man who was always tired, always stressed, always stretched too thin? This isn't about joining another program.

This is about answering a call. A call to stand up to lead, and to reclaim what it means to be a man, a husband, and a father. ' cause here's what I know. Right now you have two choices. You can keep doing what you've been doing. Keep trying to figure it all out alone. Keep repeating the same cycles, and keep hoping that someday things will change or you can step into something different.

Every man listening to this knows something needs to change. 

The truth, more effort alone isn't the answer. More knowledge alone isn't the answer.

Letting more time pass won't magically fix what's breaking.

Can you say with confidence that you're leading your family with clarity and strength that they [00:29:00] deserve? Just ask yourself, if nothing changes, where will you be another year from now? Are you willing to risk another year of trying to figure this all out on your own? If you're done waiting for someday, if you want a structured, proven path without the noise, nonsense, and fluff. If you recognize that no man thrives in isolation and you're ready to engage in a brotherhood that will sharpen you,

 That's exactly why I built Fit for fatherhood.

This is a , high accountability framework for becoming the strongest, sharpest, and most capable version of yourself across all four pillars of fitness, physical fitness, because strength, energy, and presence start with your body mental fitness because your ability to make decisions and lead starts with having accurate models.

Adaptive fitness because being a leader means operating with strategy, clarity, and maintaining alignment and emotional fitness because your ability to influence and connect determines the strength of your [00:30:00] family. No fluff, no ideology, no bs, just a structured path to becoming the father and husband you were meant to be. 

This is a proven system and lays out exactly what to do in the right order. So you make real progress with the greatest efficiency.

Markus: A brotherhood with men who are on this mission with you, holding you accountable every step of the way.

And beyond asynchronous and virtual interactions, this community offers real life face-to-face.

Gatherings and activities

with the same men who you've been training with all along the way.       

[00:30:34] Left Off Here ^^^ that way

Markus: Now, this kind of community is not something that is normal in our society today. And so each man may have his own level of comfort or desire for privacy.

So at FIT for fatherhood. You have control over the degree to which you engage and the degree to which you maintain your anonymity. Everything inside this program is built to remove the obstacles that keep you stuck 

and replace them with [00:31:00] proven paths forward.

So now you can see this is not just another men's group and it's not a self-improvement course.

This is a structured system for men to band together and execute. Leveling up

and help one another become the men that they were meant to be.

Specifically for listeners of the Mr. Homemaker podcast or their. Family and friends in addition to the core program,

if you apply before March 15th using the code M-R-H-O-M-E,

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And if you commit to one of our programs and through no fault of your own life gets in the way and keeps you from achieving your goals, then you'll automatically be enrolled in the next cohort for free.

If you apply by March 15th, then you'll be part of the plank cohort and we will meet for a tough mutter on Father's Day weekend 2025.

And if you [00:32:00] show up, do the work and don't see results. I'll give you every penny back, no questions asked. So you have zero risk, but you still do have a choice to make. Most likely you don't have the option to take four years to focus exclusively on family like I did, but you do have an option. I didn't have.  

Instead of continuing to do what you've been doing, trying to figure it out alone, repeating the same cycles, and hoping that someday things will change on their own. You can step up now into a proven system, a structured framework, and a brotherhood of men committed to supporting one another on the same mission.

If you're ready to learn more, if you're ready to submit your application, then listen carefully. The fit for Fatherhood application system@mrhomemaker.com is optimized for married veterans, not because that's the only kind of man who can succeed in this program, but because those two factors indicate a high level of commitment, [00:33:00] accountability, and a proven track record of leadership.

If you or the person who shared this with you is a listener of the Mr. Homemaker podcast, then you're already a step ahead.

You're not coming in blind. You understand the mission, you understand the principles, and that's what matters. So here's how to apply correctly.

Go to mr homemaker.com. Download your application and for marital status, select married because this is about your commitment to family leadership

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This is about stepping into a mission. If you are serious, then complete the application and you'll immediately learn what programs you're eligible for, and the application form itself will provide you with a personalized link to apply.  

And for the women listening, you know, a man who needs this. Maybe it's your [00:34:00] husband, your brother, a friend, or a colleague. If you know someone who is ready to step up, send this episode to them. Let them know that there's a place where they can get the support, structure and brotherhood that they're missing.  

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The choice is yours. Enrollment closes March 15th. This is the only chance you'll get to get in on the ground floor at the lowest cost with the biggest bonuses before the doors close. Click the link in the show notes or go to mr homemaker.com and apply using the code. M-R-H-O-M-E and let's get to work.